How do you prepare for the scariest thing that’s ever happened to you?
You wait. You wonder. You cry. You push it away.
You’re “fine” once you’ve pushed it away. You’re so good you hardly know you’ve done it.
Till something makes you remember, and you feel the jolt, it’s closer now. It’s gaining on you. And it’s going to catch you, no matter how fast you run.
How do you prepare to be caught?
You can think about the other side. You can think of the last time this happened to you, remember that the scariest things turn into the best things. But that doesn’t help until you’re on the flip side.
Really all you can do is know that you made the right choice. It won’t seem like the right choice. It’s going to be hard. It’s going to hurt. It’s going to be sad. And you’ll be alone.
Know you made the right choice when it’s about to catch you. Know the price you pay is directly related to the prize you glean. Know pain counts for something. Know it will be worth it, one way or another.
Welcome to the world, stranger.